Wednesday, November 19, 2014


...weeks pregnant! I can still see my toes, my ankles are typically their usual size, and in most ways I've been feeling physically pretty normal but am thinking I may have felt my first Braxton Hicks yesterday!

I've honestly been enjoying being pregnant-emotional lability aside-getting to feel her squirms and kicks, watching her progress with an exciting goal ahead, and starting to join the world of moms (who tend to be pretty cool people).
Other perks include:
-not having to lift/push/pull patients at work (though sometimes it's just as annoying to find someone else to help)
-shopping for things that other people buy (a lot of amazon and pinterest action and a lot a lot of huge blessings from family and friends, we feel very supported!)
-not worrying if your stomach is sticking out too much in that shirt (it is and it's fine)
-doors opened and seats given by kind strangers (though usually it takes me half a second to realize why they're being so courteous)
-getting to eat food a lot (yum)

At 35 weeks though it may be that I only have 2 more weeks of being pregnant. For the last six weeks on Tuesdays and Fridays I've been going for a weekly ultrasound and twice-weekly non-stress tests (NST) on top of my normal doctor's appointments to monitor her health since she is measuring smaller than normal. At 32 weeks she was estimated to be <3rd %tile size-wise but all the weekly/twice-weekly testing has been normal and showing that she's healthy. Despite her still looking healthy, with IUGR babies it's typically best to deliver around 37 weeks if she's still small. That's about two weeks from now!

That leaves us at one more doctor's appointment and NST, one more growth ultrasound and NST, another NST, and then going into the hospital. Also in that time is 8 shifts of work for Alissa, possibly a tour of the mother/baby area of the hospital (yes, I work there, no, I've never been to that area), many shifts of work for Zeke, a couple classes, a couple Sundays...  And if at the next ultrasound she measures way bigger then we'll start a new countdown and when things change we'll be flexible but here's to the next couple weeks and then the start of postpartum life for our little girl!

Oh and happy 6 months anniversary to Zeke and I and then beginning of January we'll be moving to a condo (we are that couple mentioned at the end of this lovely announcement from our dear friend)! Feeling pretty thankful even though it's gonna get busy the next couple months!

Saturday, September 6, 2014

Summer fail?

This summer (though it's technically not over until September 23) was different. How do you measure, measure a summer? This year it was not in lightning bugs caught, not in weeks spent in Iowa or at camp or service projects or mission trips, not in mountains climbed or trails explored, not in times gone camping or nights slept in the hammock in the backyard, and not even in the number of times I got sunburnt. I mowed no grass, I rode no horses, I ran no races, I'm pretty sure I didn't even write a single postcard. Fail?

Nope! This summer may have been the most significant yet for me. I have nurtured an active tiny baby girl through most of the second trimester! Though I don't know much about being a mom I know enough to know that this is probably the easiest part of raising a child ever (Avoid alcohol and raw eggs? Get plenty of sleep? Wear comfy clothes? Check, check, and check. Baby grows.) Along with the relative ease and health I've had so far, I am so grateful for my supportive husband, my great job, our lovely church, our cozy apartment, our working car, and all the many other things we've been so blessed with during this summer!

Though it may appear that I've barely grown for being 24 weeks (it is even harder to show in scrubs!) it has certainly been a summer of growth. Here's to further fun this fall and a wonderful winter welcoming the wee one into the world!

Thursday, June 12, 2014

On having it all

My apologies to Holli and anyone else who reads this and wants to stay updated on my life, even if it's just the life transitions...but apparently not even those. Though I post this on September 2, I'm giving myself the credit for having actually written it on June 12.

A year ago I was finishing up my time working at Sombrero, doing my last studying for my NCLEX, hoping I'd pass and hoping I'd get a job soon thereafter. A year ago we were skyping a lot, morning and night, always looking forward to seeing his face or hearing his voice. I'd set my alarm early and sneak out to the living room couch with my flip phone, my laptop, and water bottle to do devos and pray before the day began, often watching the sun rise over the Indian Peaks.

Then there was a lull. Inactivity, rest, a break, time. Whatever it's called. Still hoping, waiting, skyping, wishing.

Then the interview, the engagement, the job offer, his school acceptance, the move, orientation, the first day on the floor and a silly ER visit, another move of sorts, the wedding, and another move within the span of about 2 months. That's why now I have it all! I have a husband, I have a real job in my field, we have an apartment, health insurance, a car, a bike, a bed, some books, we have a church and small groups, and we have a baby on the way! Indeed, we have it all!

Here comes the sentimental part of the blog where I go into my response to all that and then the part where I go into what the Christian response to all that is (how we've really had more than we need through Christ all along, etc.) anyone mind if I just leave it like this? I'm really tired and have some weird dreams to dream, as well as laundry to fold, dishes to wash, and thank you's to write.

Saturday, October 12, 2013

transitions in life despite life transitions

    I post to this blog so infrequently that I tend to re-read most of my recent posts each time I do actually post (because I do update it sometimes, see how I just updated it right now? yeah). I noticed that the last handful of posts (which brings us back to at least a year ago) have mentioned the idea of life transitions. And since I wouldn't necessarily consider a birthday a life transition as I have referred to them in the past, I can say that I am not in a life transition per say, at least not right now. Yes, I graduated transitioned from school back to home, from home back to Sombrero (more "what a day" days), and from Sombrero back home, and yes I hope to transition into the world of the working soon. But since early July I've been here and plan to be here indefinitely. Propositions, schemes, aims, intentions, and ambitions to go other places - yes; plans - no. So, no, no life transition here! Just the same old unemployed/un-in-school life, lightly scattered with a few visits or activities here and there.

    I am transitioning through stages of hope, even while I stay in one place keeping the same routine (or lack-thereof).

    There are things hoped for: a good crew of coworkers for the start of the summer, a long-distance relationship to solidify and grow (I know those seem like opposite words), a passing NCLEX result on the first try, fun travels and reunions, opportunities to see Zeke, chances to go hiking, etc. These "hope it works out"s worked out already!

    There are things hoped for: that I'd read more, I'd run more, I'd help out more, I'd do my devotions more, I'd apply for more jobs more, I'd keep up with friends more, I'd clean out my room more, I'd sew more, I'd paint and draw more, I'd make more music more, I'd finish more projects more, I'd better myself more, I'd care more, I'd love more, I'd reach out to people more, I'd do more with my more time more... These... I'm finding it unhealthy to hope in just these. These are great intentions. These could be beautiful once worked out. These "hope it works out"s haven't worked out so well so far. So have I failed if there are less days that I make progress on one or two of these fronts than days where I seem to shut down and never check anything off my list? Do I give up all good intentions for fear of never realizing them anyway? Or should I just try harder? Should I re-write my list so it looks more do-able? Color-code it? Should I read a self-help book? Should I give my bootstraps another tug? I thought God was supposed to help me pull myself up...can't there be a verse about God helping us help ourselves?

    There are things still hoped for: that I would not just be a nurse (I've got the initials) but that I would be a nurse, that I would put down my pride and give Christ control of my good intentions and let His intentions for my life outweigh my own, no matter how noble mine seem.

    Paul recommends a lot of great things in his letter to the Colossians, not the least of which is "whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." Reading this today, it's easy for me to misread this as just another thing to add more of to my list of good intentions; as if to say "do those good intentions, but also do them even better than you were planning on."
    What I found to be most encouraging was earlier in the book where Paul mentions all the work he's been doing to spread the gospel to Jews and Gentiles etc. He says, "to this end I labor, struggling with all his energy, which so powerfully works in me." This one sentence brings out an entire implied theme of "not my own power, not my own energy, not my own strength but Christ's power, Christ's energy, and Christ's strength." Every command, every criticism, every encouragement, every "do not" and "do this" from Paul can be seen with the understanding that he functions and struggles with these things with an energy not of his own. He expects that his readers would rely on that divine energy, too. Just another way the gospel is presented in the Bible. It's also just another way I see my need for the truth of the gospel in my life; even if I think I'm not transitioning at the moment God's work tends to be pretty dynamic. I think this energy that so powerfully worked in Paul, sounds like a healthier thing to hope in than my own bootstraps; besides it would be stupid to wear out the straps of your boots before the soles even.

Sunday, May 12, 2013


To start off with a side note: lets just note that so far I'm a pretty consistent life-transitions blogger but not a good daily-life blogger. So be it. Sorry? Or maybe you reader(s?) should just be thankful that I tend to have relatively frequent life-transitions... I'm not saying I'll never post more frequently but I might also be saying that as soon as I stop living life in 3-ish-month-long disconnected segments posts might become even more infrequent. We'll see!

It's hard to think that my time at Trinity is so close to coming to a close. I just went to another last event; this time it was Sunday Night Worship which I've been attending and part of the leadership team for since sophomore year.

It's hard to think about all the possibilities for the future but then again, it's hard to worry when you remember the theme of the songs we sang at SNW tonight. Here's a string of phrases from our hymnsing that are good reminders for my life:

In every condition, in sickness in health; in poverty's vale, or abounding in wealth; at home and abroad, on the land, on the sea, as thy days may demand, shall thy strength ever be...when through the deep waters I call thee to go, the rivers of woe shall not thee overflow...when through fiery trials thy pathways shall lie, my grace, all sufficient, shall be thy supply...
O God my Father thou changest not, thy compassions they fail not...strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow...
When peace like a river attendeth my way, when sorrows like sea billows roll, whatever my lot, Thou has taught me to say it is well with my soul...Christ has regarded my helpless estate and hath shed His own blood for my soul...
Because He lives, I can face tomorrow, all fear is gone, because I know He holds the future, and life is worth the living just because he lives...
Beautiful Savior! Lord of all the nations! Son of God and Son of Man! Glory and honor, praise, adoration, now and forever more be Thine.

God's steadfast love, mercy, compassion, and His generous forgiveness are foundational to everything. He is primary, everything else is secondary. From the perspective of his sovereignty even all the questions I have about the future seem minor; they're just details.

And of course we ended SNW with "Lord, prepare me to be a sanctuary: pure and holy, tried and true. With thanksgiving, I'll be a living, sanctuary, for you."

Singing "Sanctuary," singing hymns, psalms, and spiritual songs, passing the peace, and fellowshipping with the other SNW-goers week after week has shaped me. Prepared me, even. Prepared me for what, I'm not exactly sure, but I know it's the Lord's doing and not mine. I do know that I am being prepared (and will continue to be prepared) to live as a pure, holy, thankful, and living being. The where/when/how/with who/what are just details.

Friday, January 11, 2013

No escribo la poesia

No escribo la poesia,
Y no escribo en espanol tampoco.
Para ti la y lo escribo.

No tengo el internet,
Y no tengo computadora tampoco.
Para ti los tengo.

Yo tengo corazon,
Y tengo palabras tambien.
Para ti los te doy.

Saturday, December 1, 2012

Let's talk about...

Let’s talk about how there’s only one full week of school left before finals this semester and how that leaves some of us with no more college left and some of us with just one more semester left. Or lets not because that’s no fun.

Some of the things we talk about instead:

“Oh yeah, I think that we still have your/_____’s (possessive proper noun) ______ (noun) in our room from ______ (time/event).”
“Do you happen to have (toilet paper/vinegar/chair/bow and arrow/ham/bananagrams...)?”
“What (artist/album/song) is this?”
“We need to do ___ (something) in the next two weeks!”
“I was supposed to email _____ (name) about _____ (noun).”
“I was supposed to turn in _____ (assignment/project) by ____ (past time).”
“So, what do you have to do yet in the next (time period <2 weeks)?”
“(random story from the day)”
“Things fall apart...” “...Chinua Achebe.”
“This sushi is ____ (adjective).”
“I think I’m going to go to bed.”
“I’m so sleepy. I fell asleep in ____ (place) while trying to ____ (homework-related verb).”
“I should do laundry.” “Me too.”
“I need to get groceries.” “Me too.”
“(something about some sports?)”
“______ (event/activity) was happening on campus? I didn’t even know!”
“I saw ____ (noun) on pinterest!” 
“I was on facebook and ____ (name) posted _____ (something probably funny/stupid).” 
“Have you read ____ (book/poem/article)?”
“So you know how in chapel...”
“I only have $__ in flex left.”
"So how many time zones is Kenya away from ____ (places across the globe where friends will be)?"

And often these various questions and conversations lead us back to something we’re all trying to figure out but aren’t always sure how to address: “how did it get to be that we’re this old and most things in high school were >5 years ago and now we’ll have to think realistically about the future and how are we going to do all by our lonesomes?” 

I guess it’s just one of those life-transition things and we’ll keep asking these questions every birthday or every time we move or every time we miss someone from our past or every time we realize we’re doing something we only ever imagined doing.

So let’s talk about how there’s only one full week of school left before finals this semester and how that leaves some of us with no more college left and some of us with just one more semester left. Lets figure out as much as we can together so at least next time these questions come up then we can at least remember how we go through this community-like and turn our confusion into praise to God (author of salvation, the potter, the weaver of the clothing of righteousness) for the (people/places/activities/events/books/times/projects) that (have shaped/are shaping/will shape) us.